You want a girlfriend but you don’t want an argumentative she-man. You want a girlfriend who is nice, sweet, modest and chipper. You don’t want “just one of the guys”. You want a girlfriend who looks up to you and builds up your confidence and makes you smile. You want a girlfriend who acts like a girl and makes you feel strong and powerful.
Is there a way to find such a creature?
Here at Bold & Determined I have previously spoken of “good girls” in a positive light. I’ll let you in on a little secret, a good girl is often really just a shy girl. A shy girl doesn’t usually act on her slutty emotions or on the whims of her slutty friends. Today we will share with you how you can acquire a shy girl of your very own.
Why you would want a shy girl
Extroverted girls are just too forward. There’s nothing for you to do as a man. They’ll just come running to you. You’ll ignore them for days or weeks in a row and they’ll still be calling and trying to see you. It’s too easy to seduce outgoing girls. You’ll meet them and then be in bed with them 45 minutes later. You don’t have to work for anything. When you don’t work for anything you don’t care about it, it means nothing. There’s no hunting involved so you just don’t care. A shy girl, on the other hand, takes some work to get. You will have to be the hunter rather than the hunted, as nature intended you to be.
There are many other reasons to pick a shy girl over an extroverted girl as your girlfriend. These reasons include:
- shy girls will often have far fewer sexual partners than outgoing girls
- shy girls are typically modest and ladylike
- shy girls are not overly opinionated, rude, loud-mouthed or foul-mouthed
- shy girls are easier to get along with because they are more eager to please
- shy girls will bring out the protective instinct in you
- shy girls will let you hunt them. You are the hunter and they are the prey. a shy girl will not typically make the first move, or any moves, it is up to you.
- shy girls tend to be more loyal, down to earth and pleasant
- shy girls are girlish, rather than “mature, independent and experienced”
- shy girls do not want to compete with you to see who can be more masculine
- shy girls do not typically have high career ambitions and are happier being around family
- shy girls are not typically party animals
Shy girls make things easier. If you are to have a girlfriend you should have one who helps you out and brightens your day, not one who is argumentative, bitchy, whorish or “feminized”. If you have a girlfriend but you spend all your time fighting with the bitch about what to eat for dinner then it’s time to cut her loose. Show her the door and find yourself a shy girl. If you’re Bold & Determined you have ass to kick all day, when you get home you don’t want to have to play that bullshit with your woman too. When you’re home with your woman you should be relaxed, calm and comfortable.
Shy girls do not tend to have sky high over-confidence and are more down to earth and downright easier to be around. I’m sure you have been spoon-fed all this baloney about girls needing more confidence, well they don’t. They have far too much artificial confidence and that’s one reason they cannot keep a boyfriend and one reason why they are mentally unbalanced and rely on pharmaceutical anti-depressants. A shy girl isn’t necessarily immune to all this, but there’s a good chance she is.
This is not a cool, hip, alpha-dog or “player” thing to say which is why I’m going to say it: I like to protect my woman. It makes me feel good when a girl relies on me for protection and security. When a girl is scared and grabs your upper arm for protection it will make you feel powerful. I do not have any proprietary instinct or care for a loud-mouth woman or an overtly slutty woman. I just don’t care what happens to those types of women.
Shy girls do not typically have the black girl attitude of “I don’t need no man. I’m as strong as a man. I’m just as good as a man. I’m just one of the guys.” or any of that bullshit. Shy girls tend to not compete to see who can be more of a man. They are usually content to be the girl and let you be the man. They may challenge you here or there but it is not a constant dominance game. I feel no protective instinct to a loud-mouth woman who tries to be a man and I care zero percent when it comes back to haunt them (exhibit A), but when I hear of a shy, modest girl who is harassed it makes my blood boil. Part of being a man is being protector of your property, that includes your woman.
How to spot a shy girl
Shy girls tend to….
- dress modestly
- avoid eye contact
- speak quietly, mousy
- walk with feet pointed inward
- giggle when uncomfortable
A shy girl is a bit mousy and quiet. She won’t be on the elevator yelling into her phone, she won’t be at the club dancing like a whore, she won’t usually leave her home dressed like a dirty bum, she will not make much eye-contact with strangers, her feet will point inward when she walks, her head will be held lower. She will giggle at small, normal things.
Shy girls are not typically party animals. So you won’t often find them at the discoteche, the honky-tonk, the hipster bar or the country juke-joint. If they are at the bar they are probably holding her friends coats and purses while her friend is blowing 5 guys in the alley.
A shy girl is not going to walk by you on the street and say hi and start a conversation with you. She may make eye contact with you and if she likes you then you will see, in a split second, her eyes brighten. This is an “eye smile“, it’s a look of hope and expectation that you will speak to her. When you get an eye smile that means a girl is interested in you. If you catch an eye smile you should stop the girl and make any excuse to talk with her, (if you like her, of course). The simplest thing to do is ask directions. “Hey, do you know where blah blah is? Is there a food court here? My copy of the Holy Bible is worn through from so many readings, do you know where the bookstore is? My t-shirt has split at the biceps and I need to buy a larger one, do you know a good clothing store?“
Where to find a shy girl
Shy girls are everywhere that men and women interact. A shy girl isn’t a shut-in, she will have to go to the grocery store just like everyone else.
When you come across a shy girl that catches your fancy you will need to make the first move, the second move, and every move after that. Forget the silly nonsense of “Oh, if she liked me then she would make a move, or she would call“. That baloney is for girls, if you like a shy girl you make the moves. Period. As things progress she will open up more and suggest days to meet or activities to do, but that may take some time.
Religious girls are often shy and modest, but only the truly religious. Just because a girl says she’s “christian” doesn’t mean anything. Most Christian churches are emasculated “girl power” factories. Unless her church is one that is made fun of by all-knowing atheists, i.e. Mormon church, then it is highly likely she has no moral or religious values. If she is an active member of a cool-to-hate church like the Mormon church then she is probably not faking her religious devotion. If she is religious in the face of mockery then she is not one who gives in to temptation.
Remember: Religion is not the end-all, be-all of finding a shy girl. A shy girl may very well be an atheist, buddhist or a “christian”.